How to administer a spanking. I finally decided to make a how to video. I think it was about time for this. I think I may need a part 2. I hope this helps those of you looking to teach a partner or just trying to get better at giving your lover a spanking. This video will give you some insight into the different spanking positions. It will also show you the different implements and how to use them to administer a spanking. The video also goes into some role-play scenarios you can act out. A look at the psychological effects spanking may have on the spanker and spankee are also discussed.